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Philly brides — bakeries that’ll do henna-style cupcake designs?

Hi everyone! We’re doing a mehndi brunch instead of a formal night sangeet, and I’m skipping the cak...

2025-05-21
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Chicago sherwani shopping—who actually lets grooms try stuff on?

Hi all! Quick q for any couples based in or near Chicago: where are y’all shopping for groomswear??...

2025-05-06
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Plus-size lehenga designers who get it??

okay so… where are the designers who actually know how to cut a lehenga for curves?? not just size u...

2025-04-02
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Explaining vegetarian catering (esp. Jain) to American venues… anyone else??

Hi all 🙏 Is anyone else running into confusion when trying to explain South Asian vegetarian die...

2025-03-14
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MUA asking to be tagged in every wedding photo — normal or overstepping?

Hi all! Former bride here—this has been bugging me and I’d love your thoughts. My makeup artist d...

2025-03-15
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DIY mocktail quantities for 100 guests? (Nimbu pani / jaljeera / lassi)

hi all! has anyone done their own drinks for sangeet or mehndi? we’re thinking DIY mocktail bar with...

2025-03-10
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Making a traditional mandap setup wheelchair-friendly – tips?

Hi all! We’re in the early design stages for our Hindu ceremony and are prioritizing accessibilit...

2025-02-21
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Hindi/Tamil/Bengali/Punjabi Wedding Songs Your DJ Missed?

Hey everyone! I'm working on our wedding DJ playlist and realizing I can't assume even South Asian D...

2025-02-09
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Keralite brides in the US — where are you sourcing thali chains from

Hi everyone! I’m hoping someone here has advice on this — I’m getting married in Texas later this ye...

2025-01-26
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Prime-Eligible Haldi Outfits That Aren’t a Gamble??

hi! i’m super behind on planning & my haldi is creeping up fast 😭 i need something yellow, cute, an...

2025-01-23
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